Of all the various sex acts people can do together, giving a good handjob can give men better orgasm than anything else. The keyword here is good, of course, because it’s certainly possible to give a lame handjob if one doesn’t know what to do.

Here’s an 8-step guide to help you step up your handjob game and how to give your partner a 5-star orgasm with your own hands!

Step 1
The most important thing: Lubricate your hands well. If the penis, as well as your hands, are too dry the handjob can even become a bit painful, so lubricating your hands and the penis is crucial. In the same way as vaginas, penises need lubrication to fully enjoy the act. 

Although many use special lubricants, you can also use different oils. Essential oils are excellent, or whatever aromatic oils. Coconut oil works great, and if you don’t have any of these, using olive oil can be an excellent choice! Extra virgin of course… :)

Also, as men are visual creatures and easily stimulated by what they see (far more than we women), I highly recommend keeping the light on so your partner can see how you play with his proud Captain.

I will leave it up to you, to determine how long time you spend at each step. The timing can be everything and you must understand where your partner is in process of climaxing; i.e. by listening to him and watch is expressions.

Step 2
Gently start caressing his testicles with your fingertips. Start very slowly, and by all means try to maintain eye contact with your partner. This is one of the most sensitive areas of the body, you’ll notice how much he enjoys it.

Carefully caress his testicles

Step 3
Now, while stroking his testicles with one hand, gently slide two fingers up and down along the shaft of the penis. Remember, always try to maintain direct eye contact as that’s proven to stimulate him even more.

Step 4
Firmly hold the base with one hand while you surround the glans (i.e. the head) with the other hand making movements in circles with the palm of the cupped hand. It’s super important to lubricate well, so add a little bit more if necessary. At this point you’ll certainly start noticing how stimulated and excited he’s becoming.

Massage the head with a cupped hand

Step 5
Then, put your hand on the head of the penis and slide it along the shaft down. Before your hand reaches the base, use the other hand and do the same movement, down. The movement is sort of like you’re climbing a rope… Repeat these movement synchronously.

Movement from top to bottom, with one hand at a time

Step 6
Now, add more lubricant and, with your palms extended, rub the shaft as it were a stick with which you are looking to light a fire, Survivor style. Gradually increase the speed and strength, but careful not to hurt him.

Massage the penis as if you wanted to make fire

Step 7
Grab the base firmly with both of your hands and surround the base by holding with index finger-to-thumb. Then, slide upwards and twist your hand clockwise at the same time, and have the other hand follow upwards but twist that hand counterclockwise. Hold firmly and you’ll see how you are in fact squeezing more blood into the head of the penis. Slide your hand all the way from the base to the head and always twist them in the opposite direction. Start slowly and then gradually increase the speed.

Step 8
Prepare for orgasm! With one hand grab the base and hold firmly. With the other hand, rub the head of the penis in circular movements, paying more attention to the frenulum, which is under the head, sort of like an elastic band-like skin that connects the foreskin on the penis to the head.

Step 9
If you’re planning to kill him with pleasure, place a powerful massager vibrator, like this one here, in the lower part of the scrotum, between the anus and the testicles, while you use your other hand to firmly stroke the shaft.  

★ BONUS TIP
If your sexual partner is an adventurer and wants to experience maximum pleasure, only one thing is missing: stimulate his anus and/or his prostate during masturbation. For beginners, I recommend using your finger or a small anal toys like this probe or the smallest butt plug in this kit. For those who already have experience this prostate massager will undoubtedly allow you to stimulate his prostate, i.e. the P-spot, delivering the most intense orgasm he has ever felt!

A kind reminder, use lots of lubricant :)

Key takeaways:
Don’t forget to start with massaging his testicles
Clean your hands and use lubricant … Always!
Incorporate massager wand and/or anal toys to make him stars… Literally.