We all like some pleasure in our lives and enjoy thrilling sensations. One of the healthiest ways to feel good, without a doubt, is to have sex. This is widely accepted, and the importance of good and healthy sex-life cannot be overstated.
However, a growing number of people claim they don’t enjoy sex that much as they used to. The key-word here is “used to”, which tells us that they did in fact enjoy sex before, but now they don’t enjoy it as much as before. Multiple research conducted cross-disciplinary all indicate that stress and fatigue are largely to blame, along with many different causes associated with our busy 21stcentury urban lives. Multiple meetings, tight deadlines, traffic, lack of sleep, emails on your phone, being reachable 24h, phone addiction, bad diet etc. don’t always seem to be correlated with sex, but the reality is that they do affect the quality of our sex-lives directly.
We at the Room Privée offices in Sydney Australia are no exception. We work too much. After in-house discussions we conducted our research and decided to change the way we work and approach our busy routine with different methods with the sole aim of enjoying our sex-lives more.
After 2 months of actively changing our methods to life, we agreed on 6 things that all seemed to positively affect our sex-lives in general. Follow them, in that particular order!
1. Leave work at the office
Have you had a rough day at the office? About million meetings, phone calls and emails, too many tasks with too tight deadlines which made you eat your Tupperware lunch in front of the computer? Well, that’s it, it’s already happened. But now you have entered the door of your home and there is not talk of work until the next day. Prohibited. And please, turn off your work-email notifications on your phone.
2. Enjoy dinner together
Right. After a full day at the office you now have to cook dinner after you get home? Ough … doesn’t sound too exciting. However, there aren’t many moments that bring us humans as close together as eating together. So, here are two options:
- Cook as a couple: Play music, tell them about your day, what you want to do, be silly and naughty :)
- Homedelivery: There’s no harm in that from time to time. Order your favourite food, no cooking, no cleaning after or anything at all. Enjoy each other while you wait :)
3. Give each other massage
Once you finish dinner, DO NOT lie in the sofa watching Netflix until midnight. There’s no sex in that. Go to the room, light aromatic candles and truly enjoy each other’s company. Oil, calmness, caresses, love, goosebumps … nothing better than a massage to release tension.
4. Or, take a shower together
Start your session with a hot shower. More caresses, more kisses, more heat. Wash each other, enjoy each other’s soft skin, and never stop touching each other. Make each other so turned on you just want to jump to bed.
5. Oral sex
Nothing better to relax and forget the worries of a busy day than a good oral sex session. And here, dear friends, we are experts. Read about our tips and tricks to become oral sex specialist and get your partner to forget all about that income statement.
Now you’ve been heating things up for the past 90 minutes and you simply cannot wait any longer. Your pulse is up, you’re both exploding with excitement, and it’s time to dive right in.
A basic principle we all agreed on here at Room Privée is silence. Keep silence in your home; no music, no TV, no phone notifications. Concentrate on breathing, your partner, your beating hearts, and even the sound of skin touching skin.
Don’t let stress ruin your sex life or make it anything less than it should be. Sex is to enjoy fully. Use it to forget everything when feeling overwhelmed and truly disconnect.